Dustin Lance Black

To be gay means you are drawn to the same sex. You can be gay and abstinent. But it's a part of who you are, an identity, not an act.

American Director

Used when someone avoids certain pleasures not for entertainment but for serious reasons.

Often associated with a deliberate lifestyle choice like veganism or sobriety.

Abstinence can be culturally significant, respecting these choices is important.

Highlights a person's willpower in resisting urges or temptations.

Commonly used in medical or therapeutic contexts to track progress.

Being an abstinent can be part of one's identity, much like a vegetarian.

May require explanations in social situations where indulgence is common.

Using 'abstinent' shows respect for someone's choice not to partake in an activity.