
What are you, was he, etc. getting at?
Conversation Probe
Used to gently dig deeper into someone's thoughts when the meaning isn't clear.

You seem upset about the decision, what are you getting at?
Not Aggressive
It's a non-confrontational way to ask for clarity without sounding too aggressive.

Your comments are intriguing; what are you getting at?
Clarify Assumptions
Use it to clarify if you think someone is implying something without stating it directly.

Your hints seem to point somewhere; what are you getting at?
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