What are you, was he, etc. getting at?

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To try to understand or find the real intention or meaning behind someone's actions or words.

You've been asking a lot of questions about the project, what are you getting at?
Visual representation of "what are you, was he, etc. getting at?" - To try to understand or find the real intention or meaning behind someone's actions or words.

Often appears as...

  • what are you getting at?
  • what is he getting at?

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Colloquial

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Conversation Probe

Used to gently dig deeper into someone's thoughts when the meaning isn't clear.

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You seem upset about the decision, what are you getting at?
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Not Aggressive

It's a non-confrontational way to ask for clarity without sounding too aggressive.

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Your comments are intriguing; what are you getting at?
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Clarify Assumptions

Use it to clarify if you think someone is implying something without stating it directly.

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Your hints seem to point somewhere; what are you getting at?
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