What’s your problem?
phrase
A question used to ask why someone seems upset or angry.
You've been snapping at me all day. What's your problem?
Often appears as...
- you look upset
- what's your problem?
Usage tips
Informal, Disapproving
Colloquial
phrase
An aggressive way of asking someone why they are acting in a difficult or annoying way.
What's your problem? I was just trying to help.
Often appears as...
- please explain
- what's your problem?
Usage tips
Informal, Disapproving
Colloquial
phrase
A question used to ask why someone seems upset or angry.
You've been snapping at me all day. What's your problem?
Often appears as...
- you look upset
- what's your problem?
Usage tips
Informal, Disapproving
Colloquial
phrase
An aggressive way of asking someone why they are acting in a difficult or annoying way.
What's your problem? I was just trying to help.
Often appears as...
- please explain
- what's your problem?
Usage tips
Informal, Disapproving
Colloquial
Definition 1 of 2
Pro Tip 1/3Tone Matters
How you say it affects whether it sounds concerned or confrontational.
Gently asking, 'What’s your problem?' shows worry rather than aggression.
Pro Tip 2/3Body Language
Non-verbal cues can change the phrase's meaning from caring to challenging.
Raised eyebrows while saying 'What’s your problem?' can seem more inviting.
Pro Tip 3/3Close Relationships
Use it with friends or family to show concern without seeming too invasive.
Noticing a friend's mood, you might ask, 'Hey, what’s your problem?'
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