Wear the trousers

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verb

To be the dominating power or authority, usually within a marriage or relationship.

In their relationship, it's clearly Jane who wears the trousers.
Visual representation of "wear the trousers" - To be the dominating power or authority, usually within a marriage or relationship.

Often appears as...

  • who wears the trousers
  • wears the trousers in the relationship

Usage tips

Idiomatic

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Gender Stereotype

The phrase originates from gender roles where traditionally men had the power.

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Even though it's the 21st century, in their house, he still wears the trousers.
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Cultural Nuance

It's a British expression, so be mindful that it may not be understood globally.

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While working with American clients, she avoided saying 'wear the trousers'.
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Informal Context

Suitable for casual conversation, but may be inappropriate in formal settings.

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At the family dinner, Uncle Joe joked that Aunt May wears the trousers.
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