Take it out on

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phrasal verb

To unfairly direct your anger or dissatisfaction towards someone or something that is not the cause of it.

After a rough day at work, she would often take it out on her family by losing her temper.
Visual representation of "take it out on" - To unfairly direct your anger or dissatisfaction towards someone or something that is not the cause of it.

Often appears as...

  • take it out on someone
  • take it out on something

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Disapproving

Colloquial

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Emotional Transfer

The phrase implies transferring emotions, often anger or frustration, from the true source to an undeserving target.

Illustration for Emotional Transfer
He failed his test and took it out on his little brother by yelling at him.
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Negative Context

Usually used in a negative context, it's about inappropriate outbursts towards others.

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Even though she was upset, she didn't take it out on her friends.
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Unfair Behavior

It highlights an element of unfairness, as the recipient is not to blame.

Illustration for Unfair Behavior
I know you had a bad day, but don't take it out on the waiter.
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