Spare somebody’s feelings

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verb phrase

To avoid doing or saying something that would upset someone.

I didn't tell him the truth about his performance because I wanted to spare his feelings.
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Often appears as...

  • spare someone's feelings by not saying something
  • spare someone's feelings by doing something

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Idiomatic

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Emotional Tact

Using the phrase conveys sensitivity towards someone's emotions by avoiding harsh truths.

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She spared his feelings by complimenting his effort, despite the poor result.
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Indirect Communication

Sometimes used to indirectly communicate criticism without being blunt.

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To spare her feelings, he suggested she might try a different approach next time.
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Cultural Sensitivity

In some cultures, it's more common to spare feelings to maintain harmony.

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In a collectivist culture, people often spare someone's feelings to keep group unity.
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