Rub somebody up the wrong way

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To irritate or annoy someone, usually by doing something they don't like.

He has a tendency to rub people up the wrong way with his blunt remarks.
Visual representation of "rub somebody up the wrong way" - To irritate or annoy someone, usually by doing something they don't like.

Often appears as...

  • tendency to rub somebody up the wrong way
  • don't want to rub somebody up the wrong way

Usage tips

Disapproving

Idiomatic

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Emotional Tone

This phrase often implies a strong emotional response and can signal that someone is upset or offended.

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Sorry if I rubbed you up the wrong way; I didn't mean to upset you.
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Personal Sensitivity

Be careful using this phrase, as it suggests knowing personal quirks that can trigger irritation.

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My advice may rub her up the wrong way; she's pretty sensitive about this topic.
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Conversation Context

Use this phrase to explain conflict in past interactions, especially social or work-related misunderstandings.

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At the meeting, his aggressive tone rubbed the team up the wrong way.
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