Rather you, him, etc. than me

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Used to express relief that oneself is not the person who has to do a difficult or challenging task.

You want to climb that mountain? Rather you than me.
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Often appears as...

  • rather him than me
  • rather her than me

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Informal

Colloquial

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Empathetic Relief

Expresses empathy by being thankful for not being in someone else's situation.

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He has to work 80 hours this week, rather him than me.
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Subtle Irony

Sometimes used ironically to mean you might actually want to be in that situation.

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You're dating a celebrity? Rather you than me!
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Casual Tone

Used in informal situations among friends or colleagues.

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You're giving a presentation to the entire company? Rather you than me, mate!
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