Rather you, him, etc. than me
phrase
Used to express relief that oneself is not the person who has to do a difficult or challenging task.
You want to climb that mountain? Rather you than me.

Often appears as...
- rather him than me
- rather her than me
Usage tips
Informal
Colloquial
phrase
Used to show that you do not wish to do something that someone else is going to do.
You're going to the strike meeting? Rather you than me.

Often appears as...
- rather you than me doing
- rather you than me going to
Usage tips
Informal
Idiomatic
phrase
Used to express relief that oneself is not the person who has to do a difficult or challenging task.
You want to climb that mountain? Rather you than me.

Often appears as...
- rather him than me
- rather her than me
Usage tips
Informal
Colloquial
phrase
Used to show that you do not wish to do something that someone else is going to do.
You're going to the strike meeting? Rather you than me.

Often appears as...
- rather you than me doing
- rather you than me going to
Usage tips
Informal
Idiomatic
Definition 1 of 2

Empathetic Relief
Expresses empathy by being thankful for not being in someone else's situation.

He has to work 80 hours this week, rather him than me.
Subtle Irony
Sometimes used ironically to mean you might actually want to be in that situation.

You're dating a celebrity? Rather you than me!
Casual Tone
Used in informal situations among friends or colleagues.

You're giving a presentation to the entire company? Rather you than me, mate!
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