Push somebody’s buttons
verb phrase
To do or say something that annoys someone or makes them feel emotional.
My brother knows how to push my buttons - he always brings up sensitive topics.

Often appears as...
- knows how to push buttons
- always pushes my buttons
Usage tips
Informal
Idiomatic
verb phrase
To manipulate or influence someone's emotions or reactions.
Advertisers design their campaigns to push our buttons and persuade us to buy their products.

Often appears as...
- push buttons and persuade
- skillfully pushing buttons
Usage tips
Idiomatic
verb phrase
To do or say something that annoys someone or makes them feel emotional.
My brother knows how to push my buttons - he always brings up sensitive topics.

Often appears as...
- knows how to push buttons
- always pushes my buttons
Usage tips
Informal
Idiomatic
verb phrase
To manipulate or influence someone's emotions or reactions.
Advertisers design their campaigns to push our buttons and persuade us to buy their products.

Often appears as...
- push buttons and persuade
- skillfully pushing buttons
Usage tips
Idiomatic
Definition 1 of 2

Emotional Trigger
Phrase often indicates intentional provocation based on knowing what upsets someone.

Don't push my buttons by mocking my dreams.
Casual Use
Common in informal settings among friends or family, may not be taken literally.

You're just pushing my buttons, aren't you?
Conflict Clue
Can be a sign someone is trying to start an argument; be cautious in response.

She pushed my buttons to get a reaction.
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