Play gooseberry

Pro Tip 1/3

Unwanted Presence

The phrase implies the person's presence is intrusive or uncomfortable for others, especially a couple.

When I realized they wanted privacy, I felt like I was playing gooseberry.

Pro Tip 2/3

Romantic Context

Often used when a couple wants to be alone, and a third person is present, making the situation awkward.

Hanging out with them on Valentine's Day made me the gooseberry.

Pro Tip 3/3

Idiomatic Usage

Understand it as an idiom, not to be taken literally. 'Gooseberry' doesn't refer to the fruit in this context.

I declined the invite, not wishing to play gooseberry at their anniversary dinner.