Pile on the agony/gloom

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phrase

To keep talking about something that makes someone feel sad or upset.

My friend failed his exams and everyone keeps piling on the gloom.
Visual representation of "pile on the agony/gloom" - To keep talking about something that makes someone feel sad or upset

Often appears as...

  • pile on the gloom about
  • pile on the gloom and

Usage tips

Idiomatic

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Emphasizing sadness

Use it when someone keeps mentioning events or details that add to a feeling of sadness.

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After the breakup, her friends kept piling on the gloom with their own sad stories.
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Negative reinforcement

It's used to describe making a situation feel worse by continuous negative comments.

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He lost his job, and his colleagues piled on the gloom talking about the tough job market.
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Avoid in comfort

Avoid using this phrase when trying to comfort someone as it can make you seem insensitive.

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When she started to cry, I knew it was time to stop piling on the gloom.
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