My way or the highway

Pro Tip 1/3

Assertive Tone

The phrase expresses a strong demand or ultimatum, often seen as bossy or uncompromising.

In team meetings, he always insists on 'my way or the highway,' which frustrates us.

Pro Tip 2/3

Not for Arguments

Use it to show firm decisions, not when you're open to discussion or negotiation.

When it comes to safety rules, it's always my way or the highway.

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Informal Context

It's casual and might not be suitable for formal situations, like business negotiations or academia.

I run a tight kitchen; it's my way or the highway.