Kick somebody when they’re down

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To harm, criticize or take unfair advantage of somebody when they are already experiencing difficulties or are in a weak position.

Jerry lost his job and his girlfriend left him the next week. I don't want to kick him when he's down by asking him to repay the money he owes me this month.
Visual representation of "kick somebody when they’re down" - To harm, criticize or take unfair advantage of somebody when they are already experiencing difficulties or are in a weak position.

Often appears as...

  • don't kick someone when they're down
  • avoid kicking someone when they're down

Usage tips

Disapproving

Idiomatic

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Context Matters

The phrase is often used in situations of failure or distress, implying sensitivity to others' misfortunes.

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After the team lost, the coach decided not to criticize them further, to avoid kicking them when they were down.
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Emotional Impact

Using this phrase suggests empathy and consideration for the feelings of the person in trouble.

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I heard Ben's business failed, so I didn't ask for my loan back—I didn't want to kick him when he was down.
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Metaphorical Use

It's a metaphor; it doesn't mean physically kicking someone, but rather adding to someone's troubles.

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When she gossiped about Lisa's divorce, it felt like she was kicking her when she was down.
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