It takes two to tango

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phrase

Both people involved in a situation or argument are responsible for it.

You can't blame it all on me, it takes two to tango!
Visual representation of "it takes two to tango" - Both people involved in a situation or argument are responsible for it.

Often appears as...

  • she thinks it takes two to tango
  • when they fight

Usage tips

Idiomatic

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Shared Responsibility

This phrase emphasizes that both parties have contributed to a situation, not just one.

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When the project failed, the team understood it takes two to tango.
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Reflective Accusation

Used to suggest that someone should not blame others without acknowledging their own role.

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Don't point fingers – it takes two to tango, after all.
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Conflict Resolution

Helpful in defusing arguments by reminding those involved that they both have a part in the conflict.

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To settle their dispute, they admitted it takes two to tango.
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