If you can’t beat them, join them

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It is better to join or cooperate with those who are stronger or more successful than you, than to fight against them and lose.

I've been competing with their shop for years, but they always end up getting more customers. If you can't beat them, join them. I think I'm going to merge my store with theirs.
Visual representation of "if you can’t beat them, join them" - It is better to join or cooperate with those who are stronger or more successful than you, than to fight against them and lose.

Often appears as...

  • decided to join them
  • better to join them

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Colloquial

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Adaptability

This phrase suggests adapting to a situation by joining a successful group rather than continuing a losing battle.

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Their software is too dominant in the market; if you can't beat them, join them.
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Colloquial Use

Used more in informal conversations than in formal writing or speeches.

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Everyone's using that app now; I guess if you can't beat them, join them.
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Pragmatism

Reflects the idea of being practical and choosing the easiest or most beneficial path.

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She started supporting the new policy at work – if you can't beat them, join them.
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