How can/could you!

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Emotional Charge

This phrase often conveys strong emotions like betrayal or hurt feelings.

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How could you forget our anniversary?

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Common Misuse

Don't use it for mild annoyances, it's for serious actions.

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How could you not answer my message for a week?

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Conversational Tone

It's informal, often used among friends, family, or close relationships.

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How can you just cancel our plans last minute?

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