Have it in for somebody

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phrase

To be intentionally unfriendly to someone because you do not like them, often planning to cause them harm or discomfort in some way.

Ever since that argument, it seems that John has it in for me. He always excludes me from group activities.
Visual representation of "have it in for somebody" - To be intentionally unfriendly to someone because you do not like them, often planning to cause them harm or discomfort in some way

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  • has it in for me
  • have it in for him

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Informal, Disapproving

Idiomatic

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Negative Emotion

It suggests a strong dislike, not just a mild annoyance or typical disagreement.

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She has had it in for me ever since I got the promotion she wanted.
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Subtle Intention

The phrase implies a covert plan or intent to harm, not necessarily through direct confrontations.

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After the prank I played on him, I'm sure he has it in for me now.
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Long-term Hostility

It can imply a long-standing resentment that might not easily be resolved.

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Mia has had it in for her co-worker for years, blaming her for a missed promotion.
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