For the life of you

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phrase

No matter how hard one tries or how important it is.

I can't, for the life of me, remember where I put the keys.
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Often appears as...

  • can't for the life of me
  • don't know for the life of me

Usage tips

Idiomatic

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Emphasis on Frustration

Often shows frustration or impatience over not being able to do something.

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I can't, for the life of me, figure out this puzzle.
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Used for Emphasis

Adds emotional emphasis, suggesting you've tried very hard or care deeply about the effort.

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She couldn't understand the poem for the life of her, even after rereading it several times.
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Not Literal

It's an idiom, so don't take it literally; it doesn't involve actual life or death.

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He couldn't, for the life of him, recall where he had seen her before.
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