Dance to somebody’s tune

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Power Dynamics

The phrase often implies a power imbalance where one person controls another.

At work, I feel I always have to dance to my boss's tune.

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Negative Connotation

Using the phrase can imply a lack of freedom or autonomy which is generally seen negatively.

He doesn't just dance to his wife's tune; he actually agrees with her.

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Resistant Variations

Saying someone 'won't dance to someone's tune' shows resistance or independence.

She won't simply dance to the company's tune; she intends to negotiate.