Dance to somebody’s tune
verb
To do what someone else wants or to follow their instructions, often without questioning them.
Even though she is their daughter, she doesn't always want to dance to her parents' tune.
Often appears as...
- dance to his tune
- dance to her tune
Usage tips
Disapproving
Idiomatic
verb
To do what someone else wants or to follow their instructions, often without questioning them.
Even though she is their daughter, she doesn't always want to dance to her parents' tune.
Often appears as...
- dance to his tune
- dance to her tune
Usage tips
Disapproving
Idiomatic
Definition 1 of 1
Pro Tip 1/3Power Dynamics
The phrase often implies a power imbalance where one person controls another.
At work, I feel I always have to dance to my boss's tune.
Pro Tip 2/3Negative Connotation
Using the phrase can imply a lack of freedom or autonomy which is generally seen negatively.
He doesn't just dance to his wife's tune; he actually agrees with her.
Pro Tip 3/3Resistant Variations
Saying someone 'won't dance to someone's tune' shows resistance or independence.
She won't simply dance to the company's tune; she intends to negotiate.
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