Close to the bone

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adjective

If a comment or remarks are too close to the bone, they are too personal, sensitive, or hurtful for someone.

His joke about her family was too close to the bone, and she felt offended.
Visual representation of "close to the bone" - If a comment or remarks are too close to the bone, they are too personal, sensitive, or hurtful for someone.

Often appears as...

  • too close to the bone
  • cutting too close to the bone

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Idiomatic

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Emotional Impact

Consider the listener's feelings when using 'close to the bone' because it may touch on personal issues.

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I didn't bring up his job loss; it felt too close to the bone.
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Avoid in Formality

'Close to the bone' might be inappropriate in formal contexts due to its personal and sensitive nature.

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In the interview, she steered clear of anything close to the bone.
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Cultural Sensitivity

Be mindful of cultural differences; what's considered 'close to the bone' can vary widely.

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His comments on politics were too close to the bone for that international meeting.
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