Butter up

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verb

To flatter or praise someone excessively to gain favor.

She always butters up the teacher in hopes of getting good grades.
Visual representation of "butter up" - To flatter or praise someone excessively to gain favor

Often appears as...

  • butter up the boss
  • butter up a teacher

Usage tips

Informal

Idiomatic

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Social Dynamics

Use 'butter up' to describe strategic flattery in social interactions, especially to get what you want.

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He's trying to butter up his uncle to borrow the car.
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Sincerity Questioned

When someone butters up another, it might imply the flattery isn’t genuine and has a motive.

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People can tell when you're just trying to butter them up.
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Casual Context

The phrase 'butter up' is casual, more suitable for conversations than formal writing.

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I need to butter up my sister before I ask for a favor.
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